Even though there is a route entry for the 173vlan .. the default route is that of another vlan.. 
so my tcpdumps for attempts were showing the 0.69 primary address and not the 0.173 primary address.. 
after stepping back from the inet router all the way back here.. I was able to find the issue.. 
I was debugging on a separate machine as this one did not have compiler/tools/etc.. 
and in the local=0.0.0.0 trying to get that to show the address I was working with.. is how I found the configuration option.. 
chronyc tracking
Reference ID    : 8186197B (
time3.facebook.com)
Stratum         : 2
Ref time (UTC)  : Fri Apr 28 12:51:38 2023
System time     : 0.000097018 seconds slow of NTP time
Last offset     : -0.000085252 seconds
RMS offset      : 0.000677160 seconds
Frequency       : 5.201 ppm fast
Residual freq   : -0.030 ppm
Skew            : 1.973 ppm
Root delay      : 0.005739552 seconds
Root dispersion : 0.000512720 seconds
Update interval : 64.2 seconds
Leap status     : Normal
chronyc sources
MS Name/IP address         Stratum Poll Reach LastRx Last sample
===============================================================================
^+ 
time.cloudflare.com           3   6   377    42   +248us[ +248us] +/- 7015us
^- 
ohio.time.system76.com        2   7   310   302  +4285us[+4230us] +/-   37ms
^? 
clock.nyc.he.net              2   6   377    47   +888us[ +803us] +/-   33ms
^? 
time1.google.com              1   6   377    43   -338us[ -423us] +/-   13ms
^* 
time3..facebook.com            1   6   377    42   -387us[ -472us] +/- 3022us
chronyc sourcestats -v
                             .- Number of sample points in measurement set.
                            /    .- Number of residual runs with same sign.
                           |    /    .- Length of measurement set (time).
                           |   |    /      .- Est. clock freq error (ppm).
                           |   |   |      /           .- Est. error in freq.
                           |   |   |     |           /         .- Est. offset.
                           |   |   |     |          |          |   On the -.
                           |   |   |     |          |          |   samples. \
                           |   |   |     |          |          |             |
Name/IP Address            NP  NR  Span  Frequency  Freq Skew  Offset  Std Dev
==============================================================================
time.cloudflare.com        13  10   590     +0.036      2.296    -15us   353us
ohio.time.system76.com      7   3   330     -0.316     14.095  +4323us   762us
clock.nyc.he.net           13  11   584     -0.357      1.405  +1049us   246us
time1.google.com           12   9   589     +0.661      1.711    -24us   251us
time3.facebook.com         13   7   589     +0.161      2.478    +77us   382us
chronyc -N authdata
Name/IP address             Mode KeyID Type KLen Last Atmp  NAK Cook CLen
=========================================================================
time.cloudflare.com          NTS     5   15  256  50m    0    0    8  100
ohio.time.system76.com       NTS     2   15  256  50m    0    0    4  100
209.51.161.238                 -     0    0    0    -    0    0    0    0
216.239.35.0                   -     0    0    0    -    0    0    0    0
129.134.25.123                 -     0    0    0    -    0    0    0    0
chronyc activity
200 OK
5 sources online
0 sources offline
0 sources doing burst (return to online)
0 sources doing burst (return to offline)
0 sources with unknown address
chrony logs of current process
2023-04-28T12:41:49.16244 
daemon.info: Apr 28 08:41:49 chronyd[15312]: chronyd version 4.3 starting (+CMDMON +NTP +REFCLOCK +RTC +PRIVDROP +SCFILTER -SIGND +ASYNCDNS +NTS +SECHASH +IPV6 -DEBUG)
2023-04-28T12:41:49.16259 
daemon.info: Apr 28 08:41:49 chronyd[15312]: Frequency 5.539 +/- 7.942 ppm read from /var/lib/chrony/drift
2023-04-28T12:41:49.16262 
daemon.info: Apr 28 08:41:49 chronyd[15312]: Using right/UTC timezone to obtain leap second data
2023-04-28T12:41:54.30405 
daemon.info: Apr 28 08:41:54 chronyd[15312]: Selected source 129.134.25.123
2023-04-28T12:41:54.30408 
daemon.info: Apr 28 08:41:54 chronyd[15312]: System clock TAI offset set to 37 seconds
2023-04-28T12:41:55.77556 
daemon.info: Apr 28 08:41:55 chronyd[15312]: Selected source 216.239.35.0
2023-04-28T12:41:56.16089 
daemon.info: Apr 28 08:41:56 chronyd[15312]: Selected source 162.159.200.123 (
time.cloudflare.com)
2023-04-28T12:43:00.66842 
daemon.info: Apr 28 08:43:00 chronyd[15312]: Selected source 216.239.35.0
2023-04-28T12:43:00.84809 
daemon.info: Apr 28 08:43:00 chronyd[15312]: Selected source 162.159.200.123 (
time.cloudflare.com)
2023-04-28T12:44:05.94280 
daemon.info: Apr 28 08:44:05 chronyd[15312]: Selected source 129.134.25.123
chrony configs
ntsdumpdir /var/lib/chrony
ntstrustedcerts /etc/ssl/certs.pem
nosystemcert
nocerttimecheck 1
server 
time.cloudflare.com iburst nts
server 
ohio.time.system76.com iburst nts
authselectmode mix
server 209.51.161.238 iburst
server 216.239.35.0 iburst
server 129.134.25.123 iburst
logchange 0.5
logdir /var/lib/chrony/
log measurements statistics tracking
driftfile /var/lib/chrony/drift
ntsdumpdir /var/lib/chrony/
rtcsync
makestep 1 -1
minsources 1
leapsectz right/UTC
local stratum 5
clientloglimit 1048576
bindaddress 172.16.254.241
bindacqaddress 172.16.254.241
allow 
172.16.0.0/16allow 
10.20.0.0/16allow 
10.120.0.0/16allow 
10.121.0.0/16connected clients
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